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2004-12-27 23:56
This life is really nothing but a dream
Anybody would be in trouble in such a situation: your woman making love to somebody else -- in front of you.
Anybody would go berserk, would kill or be killed. But this is a shock that can be used. You will always be grateful to the woman and to the man, because this is how one drops clingings, possessiveness, jealousies.
Unless a real situation arises, people only philosophise. And it is very beautiful to philosophise that one should not possess, that one should not be jealous. But when the real question arises, when you see something happening which hurts and hurts like hell, one forgets all philosophising.
One knows that now something has to be done. In fact, without even thinking, one reacts. And something has already happened, something has been already done; then one becomes aware. But then it is too late.
Let this situation be a meditation. Nobody belongs to anybody. Neither does your woman belong to you nor do you belong to her. Nobody is anybody else's master. Everybody is independent, unique. Be respectful. If she chooses this way, then it is perfectly okay; this is her choice. You have to respect her freedom and in respecting her freedom, you will grow free. Always remember: if you make somebody a slave to you, you will become a slave to that person. It works both ways it is a double-edged sword: if you make the other free, in that very act you are making yourself free also.
And these are all childish things, they don't matter. This life is really nothing but a dream. Whether you see your woman making love to somebody in a dream or in reality is not in fact in any way different. You are in both cases just the observer. Remain the observer and don't get involved in it. Remain a witness and great will be the benefit.
You will be able to go beyond it; don't be worried. Take things lightly, non-seriously. And that transcendence will bring you such beautitude you have never known before. It will be a .dropping of a layer of the mind. It will bring a new purity and innocence. It will be a breakthrough. Welcome the shock and go into it.
Nothing has to be done -- you have just to be a watcher, just witness it.

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2004-12-27 23:56